and the hits keep coming

I had just gotten a little comfortable again in the routine of life. I don't claim to understand everything about life. I realize that I'm not commanded to understand, but to respond. I'm not worn out or overly worried about the crazines of it all. And then ... it happens. A friend tells me their incredible (bad) news that leaves me speechless! Not sure how to react. Not able to formulate words. Feelings and emotions abound.

I struggle with the reality of a hurting friend who is facing the difficulties of life. A shot came their way and they happen to be right in the line of fire. Was it just chance? Were they placed there on purpose? Were they given any warning to get out of the way? This is definitely a life-changing situation for them and all those around them, including me.

My friend seemed just a little frazzled by the news. You see, God has filled my life with people of amazing faith. Their first thoughts were about God at work and the kingdom. Not about how this affects their future. Not about how devasting this act will be to their family. They remained centered on God.

Is this what a life of faith really looks like?
Anger. Hurt. Confusion. Question. Sadness.

Is this God at work?
Change. Forgiveness. Hope. Love. Kingdom.

Am I supposed to offer words of comfort or congratulations? Is this oppresion or freedom? Is this punishment or reward? Is the glass half-empty or half-full? Is it a win-win for both people involved? Is it a win-lose situation? Maybe it's a lose-lose and neither party knows it. Perspective has a lot to do with it.

Again, I rest in the fact that God neither slumbers nor sleeps. He is not taken by surprise at this bit of news. He is walking in the midst of all people involved, offering His comfort. He is not shocked by one person's decision and how it impacts others. He cares about each person.

Question: What is the right response when we see others that we love hurt?